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Law of Attraction? Or Just Plain-Old FN Hard Work?

by MJ DeMarco on January 20, 2012 · 15 comments

A few months before my book released, I went to the book store and snapped a picture of a store shelf.

I then “photoshopped” my book on the shelf, and visualized it one day being there.  Here is the picture of the fantasy visualization (Notice the poor photoshopping job I did!)

So why do I do this?  Was I using a visualization, Law of Attraction technique?

One of my GOALS of The Millionaire Fastlane was to walk into any Barnes and Noble bookstore and see my book on the shelf.

Now if you’re wondering why is this even a goal, let me give you some background and statistics.

The odds of getting a one-book publisher, self-published one title-author, into a bookstore is SLIM-AND-NONE.

First, many trade distributors won’t even carry your book in their catalog to make it “eligible” to show up on the shelf.

Second, even if you do get a distributor to carry your book, the Barnes and Noble has to make the order.

Third, according to Bowker, there are over 250,000 books published EVERY YEAR.  This means a bookstore has an inventory sampling of over 1,000,000 to fill their shelves. For a book store to make room for your book, in their store, your book has to be considered in the top 1% of that number, OR, have a heavy backing from a major publisher. (Penguin, Wiley, etc.)

So fast forward to present day.

Last night I was at dinner and there just happened to be a Barnes and Noble next door.  After dinner, I took a quick detour and went inside B&N to see if my book was there.

Guess what!?  IT WAS! (Ha Ha, and next to Suze Orman no less!)


Goal achieved!

So I ask you this … how did I accomplish this goal?  Positive thinking?  Visualization of the end goal by snapping that photo so many months ago?  Or just plain old FN hard work?

The answer is probably not something you want to hear.  The LOA had nothing to do with it.  It’s called HARD WORK and RESPECT FOR PROCESS.

Snapping a picture of a store shelf and photoshopping my book on the shelf took 7 minutes. (An Event).

Driving demand for my book took OVER A YEAR. (A Process).

You see, the only way I was going to get my book on the B&N store shelf was to drive customers into the store and have them ASK for the book.

You do that through DEMAND. NEED. WANT.

When that happens repeatedly, the bookstore finally makes a decision and says “We’re getting a lot of inquiries for this book–we have to put this on the shelf!” Steve Martin said it best … “Be so good, they CAN’T ignore you.”  I guess selling tens of thousands of book in webspace was enough to translated to realspace.

Whatever your goal, you have to understand the process that will get you there.   Three months after my book was released, I finally got a distributor to carry my book.  IT TOOK THREE MONTHS!  Would you have given up at 3 weeks?  3 months?  6 months?  Extraordinary results is going to require an extraordinary effort, and that effort is repeated FOCUSED action toward a specified goal.  For this particular goal, the FIRST STEP was simply getting a booktrade distributor to carry my book.

Positive thinking had nothing to do with it.

So I leave you with this … Your Fastlane business should always have a “The Sky’s The Limit” potential, but you must be willing to start on the ground. So when someone sees my book on the shelf at the local bookstore, they will immediately discount and overlook the process that took to get it there.  For them, the existence of that book and all of its neighbors on the shelf, was luck.  Or happenstance.  Or “being in the right place at the right time.”

They will never understand that overnight success can take months, if not years.

~ MJ



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  • CarrieW

    Congrats Mj!  I can only imagine the satisfaction you felt when you saw your book on that shelf!  and I cant believe your near Suze Orman!  her books dont even come close to the caliper of yours!

  • CarrieW

    caliber^^^

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  • http://www.themillionairefastlane.com MJ DeMarco

    Ironically the book was in the “personal finance” section, not entrepreneurship.  Both would work though. =)

  • http://www.graphicdesignfield.com/ Steven

    Your the man MJ

  • Anonymous

    $13.99???  This sucker is worth at least $13,990,000.00

  • http://www.motorcarmarkdown.com/ Ashley

    Congratulations. Well done.

    I’d be curious to hear exactly what you did to drive demand. Write a quick post on that.

    Ashley

  • Liz

    That is awesome. Congratulations on another massive achievement.

  • nico

    I respectfully have to disagree on one technicality: Positive thinking DID have something to do with it – in that it MOTIVATED you to do the fn hard work!

    But of course without the actual WORK step you can think positively until you’re blue in the face, it won’t help you one bit.

    “The Secret” recipe is actually very much like “Think and Grow Rich”. Except that the Secret conveniently leaves out the part in TaGR about working your butt off AFTER you’re done with the thinking…

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=505177268 Abraham Leay

    I agree with you 100%. We DO need to think positively and believe that what we will do will bring positive results. If not, we wouldn’t have started to do it in the first place.

    Cheers, and I always love your content MJ!

  • Defender66

    “The Law of Attraction” and that book, “The Secret” does so much harm to people who embrace it. Just wish for something and you’ll get it? Your thoughts alone will create any reality you want? This is what sociopaths and psychopaths do when they justify swindling people. Something for nothing.

  • Mikemcaleer

    remember that you did use creative visualization and this put the image into your subconsciuos of what you want. of course i want a beautiful naked woman to just show up in my bed  but you’d have to be dumb to think you can just think it and it will magically happen. You have to get properly aligned so that your thoughts are in good order, then your action is in good order and generally certain things out of your control will happen in your favor just because you are being positively aligned with your goals.

    I can’t tell you how many times LOA will bring something into your life unconsciously. For example, I think of someone and then run into them an hour later at random.

    LOA is fascinating if you learn its benefits but also what it lacks.

  • Jason

    The Law of Attraction is utter horseshit and I’m ashamed and humbled to admit I put stock in it for years. For every moment that I wanted and believed that the LOA worked, my life was misery. Second guessing every thought, blaming myself for every random, chance occurrence, that, no matter what those ridiculous new age people tell you, is really just a random, chance occurrence.

    The Law of Attraction makes people who sell it rich. That is all. Every person who buys in to that nonsense is participating in and exacerbating one of the biggest, dramatic shams of all time and I hope, for your sake, that you will soon recognize it. I think it takes a little cojones for me to say that I was just lazy. I wanted something to work, to happen, to come to me, but I didn’t want to work for it. LOA tells people that cool things happen because of what happens with the chemicals in your brain, which is what thoughts are. With great deliberate skill, the LOA misdirects the efforts of thousands, probably AWAY from their best lives.

    I have no need to prove anybody wrong about it, as a lot of people do. Keep your views if you really think they are making a difference in your well-being. I just know so many excellent human beings who, upon making the LOA a way of life, have drifted into despair and depression for no other reason than that the magic of the universe hasn’t worked out for them, and they subsequently feel dis-empowered, like failures who can’t “make it work.” Furthermore, if someone had told me this when I wanted LOA to be the way to change my life, I would have been offended, and probably even declared that the admonishing individual was just “in the wrong place.”

    One day, when I finally left all of that go,  and took charge of my life in a way that wasn’t wishing really hard or trying to “be” what I wished to attract, everything changed. My life is really excellent right now, and it’s not because of anything I think for more than 1/2 a second. It’s because of what I DO, out of both a common sense understanding of the realities of life, and because of assfire-lighters like MJ who are doing good in the world by reminding all of us that smart work is the best work, that good ideas and, hence, “good thoughts” are  a dime a dozen, and that the only thing that will “get” us to where we want to be is our own ACTIONS toward making EACH DAY MATTER. He shows us emphatically that MONEY BUYS TIME, a concept which words do very little to convey when given to people who have no concept of what’s possible.

    If LOA is making you miserable…you, out there, reading this and knowing that this crap is just not working…pick up the pieces, read MJ’s book, and get off your ass. You can change everything about your life. No attraction necessary.

  • Igor

    Congratulations MJ on your achievement and sharing the knowledge you have with us, it has helped me a lot. Best!

  • http://www.themillionairefastlane.com MJ DeMarco

    Jason, you might want to consider writing a book.  Great take. =)

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